During this unusual time we are living through, older adults may feel even more isolated than usual. Having to spend so much time at home, especially away from our friends and family, is challenging, even for those of us who are accustomed to living on their own. But as I mentioned in my recent post A Ray of Sunshine in a Dark Time, there have been some positive developments in recent months.
It seems that the whole world has discovered Zoom, the online product which enables you to participate in online events and programs while seeing and speaking to others. Amazingly, activities which were previously only available by traveling and by paying to attend, are now available from your computer or smart phone, such as a Broadway play or a concert.
Older adults may feel even more isolated than in normal times, claiming that this ‘new’ technology is not for them. Happily, in my role at DOROT, I have matched 35 clients (to date) with volunteers to help them get started using Zoom. Afterwards, they are able to join DOROT programs or Zoom events / activities from many other organizations. Since I handle the initial screening for these matches, I’ve heard the arguments seniors give for not being able to participate, such as:
- it’s too difficult
- there is no one patient enough to teach me
- I don’t have the right technology
- it’s too late for me
Having watched so many older adults learn to use Zoom successfully, I can say confidently that seniors can learn, regardless of how tech savvy they are (or aren’t). Fortunately at DOROT, we have many patient volunteers who are happy to assist our clients. ‘Getting started with Zoom’ sessions are often available online from CyberSeniors, JCC Manhattan and Senior Planet. If you don’t have a camera or microphone on your device, you can also participate in most Zoom events by telephone.
Like anyone who learns something new, it will feel uncomfortable at the beginning. But once you have experienced your first few Zoom events, you will be amazed at the variety of activities now available to you. Even when the world goes back to ‘normal’ (whenever and whatever that looks like), it’s likely that online events will be a permanent part of our lives. And since some are of our clients at DOROT are in their 90’s and beyond, it is definitely not too late for you.
Nice piece and definitely agree. It may be fearful, but it’s something anyone can do. As you mentioned even people in their 90s are zooming (or video chatting) successfully. Give it. try the benefits are enormous!
Good job encouraging and keeping folks informed.